Part of the unveiling that has to happen in our special moral moment is for members of the military to claim their common humanity in spite of the intentional conditioning to kill.
Normalizing Violence Kills Community
By Amy Blumenshine / Original to Wings of Change / February 3, 2026
How did we get to this commonality of high profile and mass shootings in our country? I am among those who opine that our “forever wars” for “full spectrum dominance” play a role. Mass killing is normalized and even saluted. Our most prominent leader encourages making war on American civilians, mostly those who vote against him. Part of the unveiling that has to happen in our special moral moment is for members of the military to claim their common humanity in spite of the intentional conditioning to kill.
Sadly the highest domestic consequence of this conditioning is the high rate of suicides among veterans and active duty. It is telling that too many veterans refuse to connect with VA services because they have such distrust and even hate for their government due to their experiences. (“Bodyguard of Lies” is a documentary exploring official lies that continued the war in Afghanistan.) Many have serious family difficulties. Another lethal consequence are the mass shootings.
Whenever discussing veterans, it’s important to recognize that there are wide varieties of experiences among the 19 million veterans. People respond to the training and trauma differently as well. Some flourish. Yet, one in three have been arrested and jailed at least once, and at last count, more than 181,000 were in US prisons and jails. Imagine how betrayed and angry you’d feel if you risked your well-being, saw comrades hurt, and ended innocent lives based on lies. Many veterans, because of their experiences, have found common cause with those seeking to prevent wars.
We’re currently in yet another news cycle reporting US mass shootings allegedly committed by military veterans (as I noted in my January 2025 Sentinel article.) The alleged destroyer of the LDS members and church in Michigan as well as the alleged boat assailant of the North Carolina crowd had been deployed in Iraq. (Both atrocities were committed within 24 hours of each other.) Some commentators call it “the war comes home.”
The North Carolina suspect has written a book with a title indicating moral injury: Headshot: Betrayal of a Nation. Many military veterans feel that their virtue has been exploited and their character corrupted by what they were sent to do.
Other “senseless violence” mass shooters act like military mimics. Note that the alleged assassin of Speaker of the House Melissa Hortman said he was ‘Going to war,” as well as claiming covert “security” employment in various parts of the world where the US has committed lethal violence.
Former FBI agent and Time Person of the Year Coleen Rowley has been raising these issues for decades—since different decorated vets committed the Oklahoma City bombing, DC serial sniping, and Arizona murder of three nursing professors. She names desensitization as the most significant factor.
In our US society, we are steeped in stories of good killing, not just glorification of US wars fought for noble causes but also covert skull-duggery. Such shooter video games are very popular as are a plethora of movies, many “guided/consulted” by the Pentagon at our expense. Such stories reinforce the myth of regenerative violence—not just that violence brings good but that violence is necessary for individual and societal renewal. In this myth, we can recognize the Western frontier impetus to “kill the savages” to create civilization.
Rowley knows from her career interviewing murderers that nearly all murderers “seek to protect their own psyches with ego defense rationalizations that normalize their actions.”
And indeed, what a president does—like bombing boats and facilities in other countries without the pretext of war—tends to normalize such behavior. Commanding others to kill pointlessly can cause them and their community a lifetime of suffering.
“I can kill you if I consider you an enemy,” puts all of us at risk.
As one Vietnam vet explained to me, “I felt that since I’d been given license to kill by our highest authority, why should I care what the county sheriff wanted.”
In truth, violence erodes trust between neighbors and family members. Human flourishing is related to character and virtue—individually and societally. People with the orientation to promote good tend to be more satisfied with life and happier, report better mental and physical health, and feel more socially connected and purposeful.
The way citizens of Los Angeles rose to challenge the invasion by an outside lethal force has been called a nonviolent truth-force that can expose lies and bring us together. I also look forward to hearing of the humane actions conducted by many of those commanded to LA. We all can connect with that stream of divine love and channel it to others—letting our lights shine which not only drives out darkness but truly serves to regenerate/flourish community.
May our brothers and sisters in the military also hold onto their humanity during this trial – and may we all hold them in our prayers.
Amy Blumenshine, MSW, MART, PhD, is a Lutheran (ELCA) deacon. She founded the Coming Home Collaborative to address the suffering of military veterans and their families, and has come to focus her scholarship on military moral injury. She co-authored the book Welcome Them Home, Help Them Heal: Pastoral care and ministry with service members returning from war. She wrote a version of this article for her church newsletter shortly after September 27 & 28 when two states suffered mass shootings by veterans. A few months earlier she’d written about the two mass killings intended by veterans in different states at New Year’s time.
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Nearly all murderers seek to protect their own psyches with ego defense rationalizations that normalize their actions. This extends to and permeates the entire militaristic culture in the U.S. with its ever-increasing glorification of its military and virtuous wars fought for noble causes. Amplifying it is Hollywood’s sensational plethora of American Sniper/Top Gun/Zero Dark Thirty type worship of blood-drenched war “heroes,” and Call of Duty type video war games that teach school children to “kill or be killed.” (Videos, in particular, serve the purpose of facilitating “all volunteer” military recruitment.) Militarism is literally in the air we breathe.
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